There are many versions of you that exist in the cosmos if you consider the parallel reality model of the Universe for a bit. Leo, this is the same in your life too. You are one version in your head and a completely different version in the eyes of every person you meet. So multiple versions of you exist within your current existence as well. Now where we are getting at with this is that each version of you that your loved ones know loves in a different way. Instead of looking at yourself from a linear and unifocal perspective and labelling yourself as good, bad, angry, sad or anything else that may be your narrative, adjust your binoculars and understand that each eye looks at your surroundings differently, so do people. You simply need to bring your attention back to the basics and into your heart—find love for yourself there first, then look outward.
Cosmic tip: No matter what the chaos, often the most effective solutions are the simplest.